Why I Blog Revisited

After reading Liberty Montano’s Novel Blogging, I’ve thought more, perhaps more than I ever have, about why I blog. I’ve blogged about the topic before, but her book still made me think.

I’ve been known to complain about the whole talk of branding when it comes to blog. Why can’t I just be me? Why does everyone have to turn me into a store front?

Novel Blogging helped me appreciate that if we are selling a product of any kind, we are a business. Like it or not. But Liberty’s approach to blogging in that light doesn’t take anything away from being who you are or discussing what you like. As a matter of fact, she encourages you to inspire and connect by being you.

This past week I’ve been swamped in family and occupied with a sick toddler (not to mention the fire-breathing dragon in my own throat) so I’ve had time to think.

When I started A Day Without Sushi, the idea was simple. I wanted a space to share my journey from pregnancy to the birth of my son with a handful of dear friends. I didn’t publicize the blog, I didn’t tweet about it. I had no schedule. I posted when I felt like it. I posted what I felt. The only business was the business of discussing nausea and how much I needed to pee.

Sometime last year, my good friend Girl Parker encouraged me (as she had been for some time) to take my writing seriously. To that end, I started blogging regularly and publicizing my posts. I had no gimmick and no expectations. Yet, after a little over three months, I had 10,000 visits to my blog, a great number of comments, and even subscribers.

I was no Bloggess, but I was connecting with people and with my writing.

With the changes I’ve encountered over the last couple of years, The idea of going “without sushi” has taken on new meaning here – the idea of being satisfied with simpler things to keep the more important ones at the forefront. I’ve had to get creative in keeping things simple here at home. Living simply has helped me spend my time with the little guy as well as my writing.

In the year ahead, I’ll be sharing projects and ideas that have helped us here in our efforts to keep it simple, as well as the usual talking about TV, food, the occasional rant, and general nonsense that we all share in.

My reason for blogging still has a lot to do with having an outlet and spending my lexical budget, but it will also be about connecting with readers. Readers who one day may be reading books I’ve written.

So, thank you. (Yes you.)

Speaking of thanks, I’d like to thank Marcy Kennedy for bestowing me with a Versatile Blogger award today. Thanks for confirming that my theme-less ways are ok with my readers.

[Sidenote: I received this same award the day I wrote about Why I Blog. I did not realize this until double-checking my links at the end of this post. Weird.]

Why Do You Blog?

When I sat down and decided to write something for more than just my own benefit, I started reading more blogs and articles for writers and aspiring authors.

There is a ton of information out there.  Posts on craft, character building, voice, and proper grammar.  Then there are the posts on querying, synopsis writing, getting an agent. And don’t forget the countless posts on marketing, social media, blogging, and building your brand.

Talk about information overload.  Like sipping from a waterfall.

One aspect that I find interesting is advice on blogging.  How to do it.  Why you do it.  As a writer, it would appear that it is all about creating your “brand” as an author.

I’m not knocking that idea.  Really.  I get it.  If you want to sell a product, you have to build up interest.  When you write, you are that product.  Blogging is one of the ways you build interest.

Because of this, there is all sorts of advice about how to blog.  Some of it is stuff I already do.  Some of it is stuff I have no plans to do.

Why?  Why buck against the advice out there?

Because I don’t blog to create a brand.  

So why blog?

It’s cathartic.

Sometimes there are things that I want to say.  But I don’t necessarily want to say them to any one person.  I just want to get things off my chest.  Maybe I want to complain about the barista that hands me a scalding hot coffee and the coffee cup sleeve separately. Maybe I want to discuss how a girl from Jersey Shore and a Kardashian can get a book deal while far more talented people struggle to get someone to look at their work.

It’s therapeutic.  And cheap.

Hand in hand with the relief catharsis brings, having other commiserate with me is sort of like therapy.  People listen and respond.  Some even offer words of encouragement. Doesn’t cost me a dime.

I love to write.

Blogging doesn’t get in the way of my writing.  It’s just another part of it.  My WIP (work in progress) is one outlet for my writing.  The little bit of freelance work I’ve done is another. They are all different expressions of something I enjoy doing.

This post isn’t meant to say that people shouldn’t blog to build a brand. I won’t deny that one day, if/when I am a published author, it will be great if the readers of my blog convert into readers of my book(s).  And I don’t deny that the larger the blog audience, the larger the potential audience for anything else I write.  But I like to think that those readers will be reading because they enjoyed what I wrote here, and not because of any formula I followed for blogging.

Maybe that means I won’t sell as many copies as someone who “properly” built their platform.  Maybe that means I won’t be a New York Times Best Seller.

I’ll tell you a secret.  I don’t really care.  No, really.  I don’t.

I just want to write.  And know that someone is reading. 

So, thank you to those of you who read this blog.  The subscription numbers keep climbing, and last week the blog hit 10,000 hits during the 3 month period I’ve been blogging on WordPress.  Thanks for reading what I write.

Thanks for being part of the reason I blog.

Why do you blog? Do you enjoy it?  Or is it a necessary evil in your life?

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