Beware of the Confidence Man

Yesterday I read a post from a fellow writer, hurt and disappointed to discover that a writer he supported was copying the work of others, claiming it as his own.  We aren’t talking a simple idea that may have somehow crept into his subconscious and escaped in a story by accident.  We are talking about a case of copy/paste plagiarism.

http://sidneyrigdon.com/criddle/Smith-ConMan.htmTo make matters worse, this guy was selling writing workshops and critiques, profiting from a fake reputation he built on the coattails of other writers.  I feel for those who were taken in and may have lost money to this guy (not to mention the damage he may have done to their writing).

Today I feel compelled to voice a warning.  Why?  Not just because this guy fooled people, but because there were signs that he was not someone to be trusted.

The first time I had a conversation with him, I attempted to make polite conversation about the project he was working on.  He went into grand detail about his story, and polite comments from me like “that sound interesting” were met with “I know, it’s amazing” and a lot of self congratulation on his brilliance.

After some time, he asked about my project.  Already turned off, but not wanting to be rude, I gave him a little description. He proceeded to demand a logline, telling me what my logline must have, and giving his opinion (stated as absolute law) about the story, telling me the fact that I couldn’t (or more accurately wouldn’t) deliver a logline to him showed I obviously didn’t know my story and needed to start over.

I changed the subject and let the conversation fizzle.  I didn’t know this man from Adam, so I started to poke around his blog, heading first to the About Me page.  Here is what I read:

On a mid-summer’s day in 1982, the many universes in the ominverse produced a being. A being which would harbor the foresight to look into many worlds and beyond them all. That being was me. Terrell Mims. I am a writer.

Like most people born with special abilities, at age 12 my powers began to manifest. I began to see worlds different than my own. Worlds filled with angels, demons, armor clad superheroes, aliens, and globe trotting super rich teenagers. These visions filled me in my waking day and in my dreams.

I needed answers. I needed to know why I could see so many places and people. At age 20, I was led to a university where I studied under many wise sages and one told me of a prophecy. “A male shall be born. He shall see the worlds and proclaim their existence.” The sage didn’t know what to do so I left to find my answer. My quest took me from the jazz and Mardi Gras streets of New Orleans to the rainy mountainous Pacific Northwest down to the tropical beaches of Miami. No answer came.

Along my travels, I came across a black-robed figure. I didn’t know if it was a demon, fallen angel, or elf in serious need of a wardrobe update. He urged me to stop my quest. He claimed it to be as fruitful as searching for the legendary Phoenix.

I ignored his words and pushed forward ultimately coming to Dallas, Texas where I met others of my kind. Others who were born with the gift to see into other worlds, yet when I told them of what I saw they proclaimed “He is the one. He shall see what lies beyond.”

I stayed and studied and discovered my destiny. I was to tell the world of what lies beyond. I began to work, but the figure returned. His name was Failure. Failure sought to deter me, to push me from my goal, but I pursued. I needed to be what the world needed. A writer. A force to proclaim stories of other worlds.

I fled across the world, but the Failure kept behind me until he caught me. Our struggle lasted for months. Blood, sweat, and tears were shed yet I bested him. He retreated, but swore to return. I welcome his challenge.

As I looked around me, I saw where I was. I was surrounded in light. Creative power. I spoke out into the light, “Here I stand. At the path of Angels. The center of the Universe”

When I stopped laughing (at, not with) alarm bells went off.  Could this guy be serious?  The world “needed” him?  ”The Center of the Universe”?

The alarms continued as I read some of his blog posts, including one where discussed climbing a mountain as a drawn out metaphor for reaching his goal of being a NYTBSA.  Aside from the post being a trite rehash of something I’m sure he heard or read, in this particular post I found this gem:

Who’s here to help me climb and who’s here to congratulate me on the climb? Those going on the climb are coming with me and the others are relegated to “see you on Facebook.”

That’s right folks. He may grace your Facebook wall with his presence, but don’t expect him to bring potato salad to your next barbecue.

It always was about his success, and your support didn’t mean much unless you were going to be just as successful (so he could use your success to push himself higher).

He presented his work with self-adulation and over the top confidence.  At best, he was someone who was trying to bury his own insecurities, at worst, he was a narcissist, someone with a “willingness to exploit others and an inflated sense of self-importance”*.

I don’t present all of this to beat a dead horse, but to warn others.  I’ve heard a lot of “but he seemed like such a nice guy”.  He played a part.  He flattered those he thought could get him somewhere, he used other writers credentials to promote himself as an expert, and he always spoke about himself and his work with great confidence.

Do you know what the “con” in con man stands for?  Confidence.

http://www.mastermarf.com/2008/05/motivational-monday-overconfidence.htmlIn the end, he is getting his comeuppance, and I am glad that it happened sooner than later.  But for next time, beware of the confidence man.

*text in quotes in this sentence taken directly from Wikipedia article on narcissism

Why It’s Worth a Watch Wednesday – CBS Hits

This week on Why It’s Worth a Watch Wednesday, Tiffany and I take on CBS Hits.

When it comes to hit dramas, the idea of a super observant crime solver is not a new one. Law and Order: CI, Monk, and Psych all have a primary character that seems to have a super sense when it comes to piecing together clues to solve a crime.

The Mentalist tells that same tale through Patrick Jane (Simon Baker), the titular character, a former con man who now consults with the California Bureau of Investigation. Jane found great success in his con days as a psychic medium, so why would he now be living a life solving crime instead of committing them?

While a psychic, Jane appeared on a TV show and made mention of his psychic skills making it possible for the police to profile a serial killer known as Red John. Not appreciating his statements, Red John kills Jane’s wife and daughter. Wanting to avenge the death of his family, Jane using his skills of observation and understanding of human behavior to help the CBI catch criminals, specifically Red John.

Senior Special Agent Teresa Lisbon leads the team Patrick consults for, assisted by Special Agents Cho (Tim Kang), Grigsby (Owain Yeoman), and Van Pelt (Amanda Righetti). Each agent has a distinctly different approach. Of the three, Van Pelt is the “greenest” agent, who occasionally butts heads with Jane over her belief in religion and her moral ideas.

The story lines are well put together, and watching Jane solve crime in unconventional ways, particularly when those ways put him at odds with his colleagues keeps the show interesting.

Unlike last week’s crime solving selection, Castle, this show has a darker, more serious tone. There is humor at times, but the primary character’s seeming lack of empathy and his mission to avenge the death of his family offers up a colder, more personal tale.

While the premise for the show is strikingly similar to Psych (fake psychic, consulting for the police) it is executed in such a way that you won’t find yourself drawing comparisons between the two.

This show is deserving of a GTV, a well paced story with interesting characters, whose back stories are only gradually revealed. It keeps you coming back to find out more about everyone’s motivation, not just the titular character.

Are you a fan of The Mentalist? Or at least Simon Baker? Who is your favorite character?  Is there a crime show you love more or less?

Now head over to Tiffany’s blog and see what she thinks of the CBS hit Blue Bloods and find out what we’ll talking about next week.