Is Your Personality YOU?

Okay. That title sounds weird.

Bear with me.

I’ve mentioned more than once on this blog that I am an INFP. This is one of sixteen personality types given when you fill out a Kiersey Temperament Sorter. If you’ve never done this test, go give it a try.

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So many personalities.

Now, I’ve taken my fair share of personality quizzes in my years (yes, even those horrid Cosmo-esque ones…I was a teenager after all), but they always seemed fairly hit or miss. Honestly, the first time I took the KTS I felt the results were close, but not quite right.

It wasn’t until I took the quiz as a young adult, without the input of friends, that I came up with the INFP result.

As I read the various books and websites detailing “my” various traits, it became clear that this test was different.

Some things that stood out to me:

When it comes to the mundane details of life maintenance, INFPs are typically completely unaware of such things. They might go for long periods without noticing a stain on the carpet, but carefully and meticulously brush a speck of dust off of their project booklet.

Yes. It’s true. Even though I am currently sitting in a completely vacuumed and mostly clean house before 9 AM, my natural inclination is to toss my clothes on the floor rather than put them away when I get home. Former roomates, take note! It’s not my fault that my room often looked like the closet threw up. And yes, this would explain why I pre-fold my laundry when sorting it…in fact…

INFPs are not naturally interested in administrative matters such as bill-paying and house-cleaning, but they can be very good at performing these tasks when they must. They can be really good money managers when they apply themselves.

…Ha. I am not naturally inclined to clean my house. Validation for my slobbishness. (Yes, I am pretty sure I just made up that word. Whatever.) Despite not being naturally inclined, I am capable. If I make the decision to have a clean house, you can be sure it will be clean everywhere, down to last kitchen junk drawer.

They are usually quite perceptive about other people’s feelings and motives, and are consequently able to get along with all sorts of different people. However, the INFP will keep their true selves reserved from others except for a select few, with whom they will form close and lasting friendships.

I have a friend that used to refer to my ability to read people as “Spidey Sense”. In my late teens/early twenties, I upset more than one friend by telling them that their current love interest was no good. (I’ve learned in my “old” age that it is best to reserve my Spidey Sense” for imminently dangerous situations.)

I also get along with most everyone I meet, but I have very few close friends – or at least friends that really know me. Friends, for example, that aren’t shocked to find out that I am not an extrovert.

INFPs are flexible and laid-back, until one of their values is violated. In the face of their value system being threatened, INFPs can become aggressive defenders, fighting passionately for their cause.

I am a fairly calm person. But, if you step on something important – really important – to me, I will defend it. Fiercely.

INFPs can make outstanding novelists and character actors, for they are able to efface their own personalities in their portrayal of a character in a way other types cannot.

While I haven’t put the character acting to the test in the more traditional movie/TV role sense, I have played characters, in a sense, to get through jobs and situations that called for someone other than the real me.

And wouldn’t it be great if the results of a personality test could be presented as evidence that you are an ideal fit for the profession of your choice? Sigh. (and with that, the “dreamer” title often attributed to INFPs makes sense)

All in all, it’s a pretty accurate portrait of who I am. Which makes me wonder, how many of you feel like your “type” describes you? And can knowing those types inform the types of choices we make? For example, are certain types more prone to be plotters or pantsers? Fans of dialogue or flowery prose? Fantasy writers or science fiction? Do you find yourself drawn to/away from certain personality types? 

If you know what type you are, give your two cents in the comments. If not, take the test and join in.

You’ve Got Questions – Plotters, Pantsers, and You

In the “You’ve Got Questions” post, Monique Liddle had this great question:

Stephen King rarely plots when he writes. He likes to create a “What if?” situation. Then, lets his characters travel that terrain and converse with each other as they move through the situation, along with the action. Of course, when he edits, themes emerge & he goes back and develops those themes in his writing. (He outlined his writing techniques mainly in “On Writing.”)

Other writers develop their plot, outline their story idea and develop back-stories of their characters to help the writer develop a response for the character. (There’s more to these, but this is the gist.)

What do you see as the pros and cons for each way of plotting for a story? And which do you prefer?

I’ve read a ton of posts about plotting versus pantsing. Some posts are very much in one camp over the other, some claim to be balanced (“do what works for you”) yet still show a bias towards one over the other, and a small handful truly are all for whichever method you prefer.

Let’s get this out of the way up front. I firmly believe which method is the best is going to depend on the individual. Different personalities* prefer different methods. It is up to each individual to figure out which method suits them

I’ve read work from writers who used the plotting method who ended up with a very tight but formulaic story. I’ve read work from pantsers that is, for lack of a better description, a hot mess. And I’ve read work from both camps that is brilliant.

So, if someone tells you one method is better than the other, or they say they’re equal but in the same breath bash one method, RUN. The bad advice cup runneth over.

Now, I am personally very comfortable in one camp, so a pro/con list wouldn’t be terribly accurate, so I will instead provide some observations on the two methods. [Readers: chime in on this point, since I know you all are varied in your methods, and will be able to provide valuable information on the method you choose to use.]

Plottskis (aka Plotters)

Probably the biggest pro of plotting is consistency. Since plotters have invested time (not to mention charts, graphs, story boards, post its, and other colorful office supplies) in outlining the story ahead of time, they are likely to catch, or avoid altogether, inconsistencies in the story.

This can apply to the characters as well. Their personalities have likely been clearly laid out, their role in the story defined, avoiding any instances where they might do something “out of character”.

This also tends to mean the editing process is smoother.

It could be argued that plottskis save time in the writing process because of their planning, but keep in mind that the more thorough the planning, the more time spent on the story at the beginning of the process.

Pantskis (aka Pantsers)

Pantskis let the story happen. This is not to say there is zero planning, just that their planning is more likely to involve daydreaming a scene rather than creating a flowchart.

Pantskis are often character driven. They don’t always know who the “good guys” and “bad guys” are in the story. They may start with an idea, but they tend to get caught up in the creative “flow” of writing, sometimes resulting in twists and turns they didn’t foresee.

For these reasons, one of the bigger criticisms of pantskis is the amount of editing they have to do at the end of writing their story. They have to weed out inconsistencies, sometimes entire scenes or characters that no longer make sense with the direction the story “decided” to take.

What am I?

I would likely be designated a Pantser. What Stephen King describes in “On Writing” is very much how I write. I sit down at the keyboard (or notebook – yes, I write both ways) and just go.

I tried the outlining method once, because I do believe that it is important for writers to find which method produces a better story, not just rely on the fact that the one they gravitate towards is right for them.

While I could still write a decent story, it was a painful process. The fun in writing (at least fiction) for me is in watching the story unfold. Outlining ahead of time killed that for me.

Now, I do want to be clear that I do think that planning in your storytelling is important. I may not like the idea of being a plotter, but I still think ahead.

For example, my Tell Me a Story series is a serial fiction where the readers get to contribute ideas that control what will happen next in the story.

That means I can’t really plot, even if I wanted to. Yet, I do have a plan. That plan is just very fluid. While I don’t have a story board full of index cards and colorful pretties**, I do have varying scenes bouncing around in my head. If I close my eyes, there is a clear image of who each character is, just not necessarily what they will do.

But, if my characters personalities weren’t clear in my mind, if a general landscape of the story didn’t exist, it would probably be a bit more difficult to write my story. So, in that way, there is planning involved.

I think what’s important for every writer is that they are honest with themselves about what kind of writer they are – and that they don’t necessarily need to define that.

Don’t be a pantser just because it sounds like less work. Don’t be a plotter because a book/blogger/teacher told you that it is the better way (don’t do anything just because a book/blogger/teacher told you it was the better way, for that matter). Take the time to figure out what methods make you better at what you do.

You may be firmly in one camp, or you may be a mix of the two. Your style may vary depending on what genre you are working with as well.

Don’t get caught up on defining what kind of writer you are. Just find what makes you write well (again, this requires being honest with yourself, which could be a whole other post entirely) and write.

Because really, that’s what it always comes down to, right?

Just write.

*for the record, I am an INFP…I’d be interested to see if there is any correlation between personality types and writing methods
**can you tell that this is the aspect of plotting I am most jealous of? seriously, the magical trips to the office supply store stocking up on poster board, colorful pens, post its…sigh