You’ve Got Questions – Everything Twitter

Welcome to another installment of “You’ve Got Questions…”.

Originally, I thought I would switch back and forth between serious answers (you know, helpful stuff) and the sillier ones. But, as the questions rolled in on the blog, Twitter, and other forums, it became clear that for a lot of people, Twitter is a big question mark. The biggest question mark of all seems to be: How do I keep track of it all?

Now, if you are reading this as someone who doesn’t use Twitter to build an audience, that question may seem silly. How hard is it to scan through the tweets of the handful of friends and celebs I follow?

The thing is, when building a brand, some people end up with lists that have hundreds, even thousands of people they follow. How can anyone find anything important in all of that noise?

You can’t.

At least, not if you aren’t utilizing certain tools Twitter offers.

First off, I highly recommend that you use a Twitter app, not just Twitter itself, to properly manage everything. Currently, I use Tweetdeck (although I am loving my test of Bottlenose.com) on my computer, and Hootsuite on my phone. Try them out and see which one suits you best.

Now, let’s get started.

Your Kiss is On My List

Lists are a great way to make sure you are seeing the tweets you really want to see. You know, the handful of people who make you laugh, or the ones that always seem to have interesting links to share.

Personally, I have a list for people who I interact with often, celebs whose tweets I love, and few other categories. I’m about as far from Type A as you can be, so I haven’t invested a lot of organizing into my lists yet, but I highly recommend it.

For writers, you might consider separating your lists into genre categories if you follow mostly writers and don’t want to end up with one enormous list of writers. Or maybe there are people you follow for research purposes. Put them in a “research list”

By dividing people into categories, or “lists”, you can then create columns in Tweetdeck and streams in Hootsuite. These columns/streams allow you to view only those in the list in that particular column. So, when you sit down for your 30 minutes of social media in the morning, you can easily scan the columns that are most important to you.

Keep in mind, lists can be designated as private or public. A public list can be shared, which is why you may find yourself being followed by people who you’ve never crossed paths with before. They may have spotted you in a friend’s “list of awesome” and followed you based solely on that fact. If you prefer that others didn’t know what list they are in (especially important if you prioritize lists in the titles) be sure to mark them private.

Hashtaggin’

Hashtags are the method of organization I use most. If I see a conversation going on, say, people discussing why bacon should be its own food group with the tag #baconisking, I can click on that tag to watch all the associated tweets in that conversation. If that tag is associated with a group that I always want to follow, then I can easily add that tag as its own column.

Tags are a great way to get involved with scheduled chats, meet others with similar interests, or just check out conversations that are trending.

If you are a writer, I highly recommend checking out this list of tags, as well as the spreadsheet of scheduled chats.

For more on Hashtags and how to use them, check out this post.

Follow back, ya’ll?

There is a lot of debate on whether you should automatically follow every person who follows you. While I understand the arguments made for either side, I personally don’t follow every account that follows me.

When I receive a new follow, I read the profile. If there is something about the profile that grabs me right away, I’ll follow back. If not, I won’t. I’ve seen some Tweeps send out a message after an influx of new followers letting everyone know that they don’t auto follow, but will follow those who interact. I think that is a lovely practice.

Now, even though I don’t auto follow, some seem very concerned with numbers, and feel that following everyone is what builds those figures quickly. If that’s what you are looking to do, then for the love of Pete, learn to use lists and hashtags. Immediately. Following 10,000 people is going to be useless if you don’t use lists and hashtags.
So here you are. You have your followers separated into lists, you are following your favorite hashtags, and now Twitter is starting to seem more useful and slightly less noisy.

What should you say?

A lot of people reading this are on Twitter to build an audience for their blogs and/or books, so there are a lot of links flying around. These tweets are referred to as non-interactive.

And that’s okay. If that isn’t the only thing you tweet all day.

Here’s a few things to keep in mind when tweeting:

Don’t post the same link OVER and OVER within short period of time. I know, you want to get everyone to read your brilliant post. That is going to require some repetition. But if that is all you tweet every hour (or every day for the last month) you are going to lose followers, not gain readers.

Don’t ask for follows. If you saw someone at a party that went up to everyone asking “do you want to be my friend? Be my friend, please, I’m an awesome friend and you should totally hang out with me” what would be your reaction? Uh, yeah. That is what you sound like when you ask for follows. People will follow you if you say things worth following.

Only on the rare occasion should you ask for the RT. If you end every tweet, or ever link, with “please RT” guess what I won’t be doing? That’s right. Again, let people retweet your content on its own merit. On occasion, if you have something really important to convey, then bust out the “please RT”. People will recognize that you don’t ask often, and will see that tweet as something important. (I generally reserve mine for charitable causes – but to each his own.)

Be interesting and engage. That is pretty broad, I know, but talk about something more than just your latest blog post or book. Interact with other tweeters. Jump into a geeky conversation, or share something of interest outside of your usual topic of conversation. You’ll find yourself meeting new people that way. Which brings me to…

Widen out! Remember that part about hashtags? I just gave you about a bazillion writer tags. And that is all well and good. We love our writerly friends. BUT, guess who you need to be talking to if you ever want to sell books? Readers!

So, get involved in non-writer discussions. Maybe you write sci-fic – find tags that would attract people with similar interests, the same people that may one day buy your book, and get involved. And don’t you dare go in there “links a-blazing”. Have a conversation.
The final piece of the puzzle that seems to have a lot of users stumped is time management. This can be especially troubling with all this talk of engaging and having conversations.

Time management is a pretty personal thing. Every one has different demands on their schedule, so here’s the thing: Figure out what works for you.

Are you a slow start in the morning? Maybe a little tweeting and chatting first thing is what your brain needs to jumpstart it. Or do you need to accomplish the necessities first? Then schedule your Twitter time for later in the day. If you have a mobile device, installing your Twitter app will allow you to squeeze in extra time when your stuck in a waiting room or need a little break (just no tweeting while you drive or the kid is in the tub, k?).

The key is not getting sucked in. If you need to, set yourself a timer. When your time is up, whether it be minutes or hours, walk away.

If you are setting a specific time of day to tweet, you might consider determining the time of day that most of your followers are active. Services like Tweriod will tell you when the bulk of your followers are busy on Twitter. Can’t be online during those hours? Considering scheduling some of your tweets for that time. (But not too many – remember, you want to be around to engage people.)

Learning how to properly use Twitter is what changes it from just another online time suck to a fantastic tool (probably my favorite) for building an audience and engaging others. So, get to it!

Now it’s your turn. Any tips/tricks you want to share? Favorite hashtags? Favorite Twitter apps? Time management tricks? Share them all in the comments.

[I tried to cover the wide variety of Twitter related concerns/questions in this post, but please let me know in the comments if there is a piece of the puzzle that's still missing for you!]

Friday Inspiration – Social Media for Good, Part II

Not much of a hero, eh?

Two weeks ago, I wrote about a mom in need and how Twitter stepped up to the plate to help. I was amazed that through a bit of Tweeting what we were able to accomplish.

The generosity didn’t stop there. Several of the moms from the online group where we “met” pitched in to send her a gift card, so she could buy necessary items. Some of these moms are having tough times themselves, but they found a way to give at least a little. Five dollars may not sound like much, but it adds up. (Next time you go to the grocery store, think about how much toothpaste, deodorant, and paper towels add to your bill. Not to mention food.)

In addition to the money gathered from the other moms, a reader of this blog, after reading the about this mother’s plight, made a very generous donation to the gift card.

Hoping to continue the trend of helping this woman, I put the word out on Twitter again, this time asking if anyone in her area where she had children’s items they could spare. Leaving her situation quickly, she left most of their belongings behind. All those things you would have around your house for a 6 month and 2.5 year old were gone.

Again, there were those that couldn’t help personally, but were more than happy to spread the word. One person in particular was able to collect items (a lot of them) from two of her friends. Even though it meant driving all over (something I know is not her favorite pastime) gathering and delivering, she did so willingly.

For someone she doesn’t know.

Even the mother in need made sacrifices to help someone else. I found out that she did manage to grab a few things before making a run for it. As it turns out, while she was staying in a woman’s shelter, she met another mom who she thought was worse off than her. So, before leaving the shelter for her next destination, she gave that mom what she had.

On the run, with next to nothing, she was still able to look beyond her own difficult situation and think of someone else.

All of these people chose to make a sacrifice – of money or time – purely to help someone in need. No one was watching. There was no promise of praise or recognition. The act wasn’t about them.

We surround ourselves in a world that tends to tell us to pursue our dreams, make time for ourselves, and become something great. Yet, sometimes on the quest to becoming great, we forget the importance of being good. To all of those who took the time out of their day to put another human being’s needs ahead of their own, thank you.

As everyone sets out about their weekend plans, I hope the kind acts that these various strangers performed for a woman in need inspire you. It could mean eating in one night instead of going out and giving that money to someone who needs it. It might mean making plans to clean out that closet full of stuff you aren’t using and donating it to a family who can. Or it might be as simple as sharing a kind word with someone who needs it.

Whatever you choose to do…*

*I love hearing your stories. Check out the #GoWithout campaign and share your story with us. You just might inspire someone else to go without and do good!

Friday Inspiration – Social Media for Good

Like a lot of writers, I have an imagination that runs wild. If I enter a contest, I can’t help but daydream about all the awesome things I’ll do with my winnings. In my head, on more than one occasion, I’ve interviewed with all the big talk show hosts, I’ve performed with my favorite actors, and I’ve made a difference in peoples’ lives.

You see, I really am like Oprah, only poorer.

Knowing that I have a leaning towards telling myself such grandiose tales, I expect absolutely nothing I imagine to ever come true. Even the not so grandiose.

It’s not pessimism, but a protection. I tend towards the philosophy that if I don’t expect much, if anything, from people or situations, I won’t ever be disappointed.

I know. Not the most uplifting point of view.

But, sometimes, something really cool happens. Sometimes, people surprise you and far exceed expectations you didn’t dare to have.

A few years ago, I joined an online forum for moms and moms to be. I wasn’t looking for anything more than a place to go and read up on pregnancy symptoms and quirks, plans for when the baby arrives, and the usual things that go swirling around in the mind of a pregnant woman. The forum divided women into due date groups, so I became a part of the July/August group.

Two and half years later, I found out one of the moms from the group was going through some seriously difficult times. Without going into personal details that aren’t mine to share, it became necessary for her to take refuge in a women’s shelter with her two little ones.

Up to this point, she was going to school via online courses, but in her need to keep her children and herself safe, her laptop didn’t make it. There was no way for her to get it back, which would mean quitting school. The expense of a computer was something that would likely be too much for quite some time.

I’ve never met this woman in person, but I felt awful. I wanted to do something. Anything. But what could I do? I’m barely in a position to buy someone dinner, let alone a laptop.

I pulled up my Twitter account that night and started asking around for help.

People responded with well wishes, recommendations of organizations that might be able to assist somehow, and retweeted to their followers. People wanted to help.

I sat staring at the Hootsuite app on my phone, imagining how awesome it would be if someone made something big happen. In my usual style, I let myself daydream about it, but I told myself to expect nothing.

And that’s when I got a tweet from Mr. Southcotte asking if I found someone to help yet. He followed up with words I didn’t expect.

“I might be able to put something together.”

A series of DMs and a few emails later, that “might” turned into a definite yes, and as of Thursday evening, there is a special delivery on its way to this mom in need.

In addition to the kindness that Mr. Southcotte displayed, the mothers from the aforementioned due date group offered to cover any shipping costs if needed, in addition to the emotional support they’ve been giving throughout the week. Some of these moms have their own struggles, but are willing to sacrifice and give, even a little, to help a fellow mom in need. (The whole concept of #GoWithout!)

A lot of time on social media is self serving. Read my blog! Buy my book! Laugh at my jokes! Look at how awesome I am!

Hey, we all have to make a living, and sometimes that is just part of getting the job done.

But the platform social media gives us can do so much more than that. It can be one that allows us to serve others.

My expectations when I sat down and wrote that tweet didn’t amount to much. But I am so glad that I did it anyway. Even more, I am glad that someone chose to exceed those expectations.

And I’m hopeful that many more will make that choice in the future. Maybe that overactive imagination isn’t such a bad thing after all.

[On a related note, if anyone knows of a lawyer in the Ft. Worth area who does pro bono work, please let me know. Dazzle me, internet.]

Thursday Tweets – #Hashtaggin’!

It’s Thursday, so I feel the need to blog about something that starts with “T”.

I probably should be blogging about something that starts with “Th”, but that limits me greatly, and I don’t really have the know how to write a solid post entitled “The Thursday Theremin”.

Maybe another Thursday...

(Although seriously, that thing is pretty awesome. Just sayin’)

So, how about Twitter? I mean, after all, there are a lot of people navigating the waters of social media, and I did take the time to talk about Google+.

Why not talk Tweets?

I should preempt this with the warning that I have no plans of making this a regular thing.  Nor will I have a Facebook Friday. And a MySpace Monday? Please. I wouldn’t have had one of those if it was 10 years ago. Ick.

But Twitter is the choice of businesses and celebs alike. And I have to admit, as neither of those things, I still find it pretty useful. Of all the social media platforms out there I’ve found Twitter the most useful for expanding my network.

When I first started using it, quite some time ago, I didn’t see the appeal right away. After all, for a verbose person like myself, why not use Facebook where I can say what I want and not be limited to 140 characters?

Twitter is great when you know how to use it. If you plan on using it, the first thing I recommend is using an app like TweetDeck. (Check out posts like this one on how to get the most out of TD – this blogger has more than one post on the topic, so look feel free to browse when you get there.)

The piece that I was missing at the beginning that made a world of difference for me?

Hashtags.

When you are on Twitter, you’ll notice users doing things like this:

I wrote a post about #bacon. Check it out. {link} #baconlovers #ameating #pigsaremagical

I talk pork at #baconsuitsaresexy

If you are wondering what the deal is with all those # (hashtags), these tags enable Tweeps (Twitter People) to follow certain topics. If I love bacon, I might have a column in Tweetdeck where I follow #bacon. Or, I might be a part of a group that discusses the virtues of every porcine piece at #pigsaremagical. If you tweet a message using those tags, anyone following the tag will see it, even if they don’t follow you.

If what you tweeted using those tags is of particular interest to those watching the tags, they might even take the leap and start following you personally.

Cool, right?

Well, before you start adding every tag imaginable to your post, some caveats.

He follows me. In a non-creepy way.

One of the things I enjoy about Twitter is how public it is. If I want to follow the swoonworthy @NathanFillion, I can. He doesn’t have to accept me as friend, I just follow him. If I am especially fortunate, someone I adore and follow might follow me back (thanks, Craig Bierko). Same idea tends to go with tags. You can use tags as you see fit. No one is stopping you from following or using a given hashtag.

BUT, some tags are used more like a specific group chat than a social hangout. Know your tags before you use them. If a tag is used primarily for chatting and you attempt to use it to spread a link to your blog or a cause you want to promote, you could unintentionally upset the users of the tag.

This goes for retweeting, too. Pay attention to the tags on a tweet. If you aren’t familiar with them, either get familiar or take them off. It may seem silly, but some tags have rules, and it doesn’t behoove you to upset the regulars.

Tweetiquette is important. Prevents angry mobs.

For your own benefit and those you are retweeting, spread the link love around to different tags. Whether you are promoting your own blog post, or the post of a fellow blogger, if everyone tweets the same link to the same tag in the same span of 30 minutes, guess what? The same people see the link. Over and over. A few times is emphasis. More than that is annoying. Don’t keep retweeting with the same hashtag.

What if you really adore someone’s link, but aren’t familiar with very many tags? Favorite the tweet to save it for later.  Keeping it in your favorites makes it easy to return to it and broadcast another time.  A different time of day, or a different day entirely will bring a new audience to your fellow bloggers link. You’ll be doing them a favor, and keeping one tweet from cluttering up a particular tag. Once you’ve retweeted, you can always unfavorite (or keep it there if you really love it).

Of course, hashtags don’t have to just be about networkingt. Sometimes, they can just be for fun. Some are used for games, like #replacebooktitleswithbacon. If I tweet “Gone with the Bacon” followed by that tag, anyone playing along can see my contribution.

You can also use them on a smaller scale to add humor to your tweets. There are varying opinions on that, but being that I am one of those people that use them that way, I say go for it. Others might enjoy the tag enough to start using it themselves.

Like #tweetjack. (The act of jumping in on a conversation between two people)

And now, I’m off. All this talk of bacon and hash has me craving some breakfast.

Just getting started and need a quick shot of the basics?  Check out this post.  

Want to know more about making your Twitter life easier? Have questions? Leave them in the comments, or send me a Tweet at @amberwest. I don’t guarantee I have the answers, but I will at least attempt to be entertaining.

Blackbird has the right idea...