Why It’s Worth a Watch Wednesday – Has It Really Been a Year?!

This week on Why It’s Worth a Watch Wednesday

::checks calendar::

…hold up…

::checks again::

it’s our ANNIVERSARY!!!

Believe it or not, tomorrow marks one year since Tiffany and I first started our series. It all began with a dream…

Okay. Maybe not a dream. But it did start with two bloggers who thought it would be fun to work together. Combining our love for TV with our love of writing, we set out to do a new kind of review; one that let our fellow writers (and other busy types) know what TV shows were worth sitting down to watch, and which were better left alone.

And here we are. One year later.

Rather than post a new review today, we thought it best to offer up the Top Ten most popular reviews, five here and five over at Tiffany’s place.

What TV shows were people the most interested in checking out here? Starting with number five:

The Good Wife
Person of Interest
Firefly (part of our Queue It Up series)
The Mentalist

Me and my pal, Hugh.

And, the number one Why It’s Worth a Watch Wednesday post of all time?

HOUSE!

Hugh Laurie was kind enough to accept an award on behalf of the show.

Tiffany and I will be busy celebrating with stars of our Top Five the rest of the week. We’ll return to your regularly scheduled programming next Wednesday.

So long as we don’t get too carried away having a blast with our famous friends.

As #watchwed sets out on its second year, what would you like to see? We’ll be doing some more web programming, as this reviewer has cancelled her cable. Any other suggestions?

A big thank you to all of our supporters over the last year!

And now, some quality time with my biggest supporter. We bonded over our shared birthday, just the mention of his name brings this blog all kinds of traffic, and, well, it’s just high time we hung out.

Ladies and gentlepeeps, Mr. Nathan Fillion!

SPECIAL ANNIVERSARY GIVEAWAY! One reader from Tiffany’s blog and one from here will be randomly selected to have one of my awesomely bad photos done of you and a celeb of your choosing! Just leave a comment on this post to enter.

You’ve Got Questions – Do Writers Need to Blog?

Welcome to the first post in the “You’ve Got Questions – We’ve Got Answers” series!

This question came via Jen Kirchner (you can follow her on Twitter: @JenLKirchner).

Q. “Experts” have been saying for the last couple of years that blogging is what authors need to do in order to promote themselves. But a lot has changed in the last year. Do you think this is still good advice? If you do, what should writers blog about to set them apart from their peers?

First off, for anyone new to this blog, here is a quick refresh on what I think of “experts”.

Ahem. Moving on.

Now, I do believe that there is a lot of well-intentioned, if not helpful, information out there about authors blogging. I do think that having a blog presence will contribute to building an audience for your book.

However, the advice is far from one size fits all. So, let’s break it down a bit, shall we?

Published or In Progress?

If an author is already published and has zero interweb presence, then it could be very helpful to build one. Many publishing houses are doing little to market the work of new authors, so this is one way you can help yourself.

Having a blog will give established fans a place to interact with the author which gets their fanboy/girl blood pumping. That in turn means way more “hey, check out this awesome author who is totally cool and so are his books!” conversations with their friends, and the blog is the place they can send them.

That is, of course, if you are interesting.

The honest truth is that some people make amazing authors, but boring bloggers. Sometimes this is simply because they don’t know how to blog properly, and other times it is for the plain and simple fact that they aren’t interesting in that format.

I know. That sounds like a contradiction.*

If their work is published, obviously they are interesting, right? Uh, no. A successful publishing career means that they create interesting worlds, or their characters are interesting. It does not guarantee that they are the person you want to be seated next to on a 5 hour flight making small talk.

This doesn’t mean the published author shouldn’t give blogging a try. It just means there is a need to be brutally honest with yourself after giving it a go (or better yet, find someone else to be honest with you).

Look at the time you are investing in posts versus the response the blog is getting. If you’re spending hours and hours writing posts that three people (one of whom is your mom) are reading regularly, well, then, maybe you should be investing that time in your next project.

Stick to 140 characters on Twitter, friend.

[Twitter interaction will be a WHOLE other post. Don’t worry. It’s coming.]

Now, if you are a writer who is working your way to being published, regardless of publishing method, blogging can be a huge way of building a fan base before you even have something for them to buy.

Again, how successful this method is comes down to being interesting. So, let’s assume that you have that ability.

What should you write about?

There are a lot of “rules” out there about what you should and should not be blogging about. Don’t be controversial. Don’t write about writing. Don’t write fiction. Don’t write about your personal life. Have a specific schedule. Keep a theme. Write short posts frequently. Write long posts once a month…

The list goes on, ad nauseam. (<;– Four years of Latin, FTW!)

So, here are a few things to consider. These are not rules.

Convey your voice.

Are you witty? Sarcastic? Silly? Do you have a voice of authority? Make sure that you get YOU down “on paper”. I can’t tell you how many books I’ve purchased (and friends have purchased) thinking, “I wouldn’t normally be interested in subject ‘x’, but the author is so funny/quirky/smart/genuine on their blog I have to check out their book”.

When you walk into a bookstore, the choices are endless. Having a blog that gives people a taste of who you are can set you apart from the others. Sure, great story and characters are what keep someone reading a book, but a unique voice can be what makes a reader pick it up in the first place.

Broaden your subject matter.

Okay, so you write historical fiction that takes place in mid-fifteenth century France.** If I don’t particularly love history, or France for that matter, and that is pretty much ALL you blog about, guess what? No matter how well written your pieces are on the clothing/weapons/codpieces of that era, you’ve lost me as a potential reader.

This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t write about what you know. Just broaden out. For example, if you write sci-fi/fantasy, rather than only writing about what your novel focuses on, try broadening out to a wide assortment of geekery. You want to keep the fanbase on the blog wide, so more readers are open to checking out your book, even if its subject matter is specific.

This is not to say that you shouldn’t blog about subjects that relate to your book. You want to appeal to the audience that is your ideal demographic. Just don’t limit yourself to only that ideal. Give those on the outskirts a reason to try your work.

Don’t write with authority unless you are one. And even then…

Writing on any topic in an instructional way needs some backing.*** I see lots of writers write about writing. Are you sharing your personal process? Go on with your bad self. Awesome. Fellow writers will enjoy that and even some readers appreciate knowing how you come up with characters and worlds.

But if your blog becomes predominantly about writing, you aren’t giving readers any idea why they should be looking forward to your novel. Or your next post for that matter.

Instructional-style posts can be a great addition, when delivered without pretention.

Are you writing a mystery novel where the main character loves to bake? Then the occasional recipe on the blog might actually be a great idea. And unless you actually are an expert baker, feel free to share your mistakes in your post. Again, it’s all about personality.

Write often. Or don’t.

There is a lot of talk about frequency. Write multiple times a week. Only write once a month.

Here’s the thing. If you are reading this, you are working on a writing project of some kind. That takes time. For a blog to be successful, it also takes time. Time to put together and write the posts. Time to publicize the posts.

Some bloggers can throw together an interesting post in no time at all. Others can’t. Some bloggers enjoy writing several posts a week. Others dread it.

Figure out which blogger you are. Then go with what works for you. Quality is always more important than quantity.

BUT…

I would recommend posting at least twice a month. If you have it in you to post weekly, that’s great, but honestly, if you are working full time, have family obligations, plus time for your work-in-progress, it may not be doable for you.

Whatever you do, once you find what works for you, stick with it. You want people to be in a habit of looking forward to your posts. If they know that you post every Friday, they’ll be there. If they aren’t sure when you post, they may not go looking for when you do. (And no, not everyone subscribes or uses RSS feeds.)

Themes

Some bloggers choose to blog about certain topics on certain days. I do it on occasion, like the “Why It’s Worth a Watch” series on Wednesdays, and serial fiction on Thursdays. These themed days are not necessary for every blog, or for every day you choose to post. They can help bring readers around who like a particular aspect of your blog, but this is another instance of finding what works for you and your voice.

The danger that can come with themed days is originality. If you choose to use them, do something unique to you, your writing, or the audience you’ve built. Otherwise, you run the risk of looking like a thousand other bloggers.

How about some fiction?

There is nothing wrong with writing some fiction on the blog. It can be a) a great way to show your creative side to potential readers b) a great exercise for you and c) a whole lot of fun. Flash fiction, letters to fictional characters (or fake letters from real people), serial fiction; they can all be great outlets for you and fun ways to connect with your audience.

The key word is some. Again, your blog should be a reflection of you, not just what you write. If you only write fiction on the blog and it’s not the favored genre of someone, you may lose a potential future reader.

You also want to be careful about posting anything you have plans to publish on your site.This doesn’t mean that you can’t post blurbs to whet your potential reader’s appetite. Just don’t make excerpts of your novel the focus of your blog, or put the entire story out there before publishing.

Spelling counts

If you are putting yourself out there as a writer, for the love of all that is good in the world, spelling and grammar DO count. The occasional mistake is forgivable (hey, I am totally guilty) but when they happen regularly, or go uncorrected, it becomes a distraction. Not to mention that it reflects poorly on your craft.

At the same time, don’t be overly formal if that isn’t the tone of what you write or who you are. If you are writing YA, the occasional OhEmGEEE may even be acceptable.

Don’t be so married to structure and rules that you sound like a robot.

Above all…

If you are a writer, you should be giving blogging a go. When you do, it’s about being uniquely you. You’ll probably notice that just about every heading above allows you to “do or not do”. That’s because every writer is different.

I’ve heard people say that you should be uncomfortable when you are striving for something. That means that you are working at it. While I believe that blogging can be uncomfortable for some at first, if it remains that way, try something different.

Ever had to break in a new pair of shoes? They may start out causing minor discomfort, but if they are well made and a proper fit, they feel fine after a bit of wear. If they don’t, they may not be right for you. That doesn’t mean that you never wear any shoe again. You try a different brand, size, or style. Or, you might deal with minor discomfort because it gets results. (If high heels didn’t make my legs look good, I’d never wear them. It’s all about results.)

Look at blogging the same. If after a while your blog is still “pinching your toes”, it’s not a good fit. Don’t give up on blogging altogether. Try something different.**** If your blog is getting results, but you don’t love doing it, well, then maybe blogging is the “stiletto” of your social media closet.

If you do find that no matter how many blogging methods you try, you are not only uncomfortable but the results are dismal, then blogging truly may not be the right tool for you. And that’s why we have Twitter and other social networking tools.

Phew. That was a long answer. I tried to contain myself. Really.

If this post raises more questions, great! Ask them in the comments. If you are sitting there thinking, “who made you the blog boss”? Short answer: no one, but experience is a pretty sweet teacher. Long answer: ask me in the comments and I’ll tell you.

For those of you who are already blogging, did you find it took you a while to find your “comfort zone”? Are you still trying to find it? Feel free to get all share-y.

Keep the questions, of ALL kinds, coming. A Twitter post is in the works based on a question from August McLaughlin, so be sure to get your tweeting questions in soon.

*It probably sounds mean, too. It’s not meant to be. Everyone has strengths. No one should beat themselves up if blogging isn’t one of them.

**I totally mad-lib’d that. If that is what you write about, PLEASE know that I had no idea and this post is not about you. History and France are awesome. I think.

***This is particularly true for non-fiction authors. Their blogs are expected to reflect what they are writing about. And readers will want to know what qualifies them. Fiction writers can get away with instructional posts so long as they a) have the creds or b) stick to giving opinion/recommendation based on personal experience.

****Stuck? Trying to figure out something else to try? Check out Novel Blogging by Liberty Montano. It has great recommendations for blog topics and exercises to help you find the right shoe. I mean, blog.

Friday Inspiration – Expand

No, this post isn’t encouraging you to sit on your butt with a plate of donuts and bacon.

Although that does sound grotesquely enjoyable. And it is National Donut Day.

Whether an introvert or extrovert, most of us find a comfort level in our associations. There are people that we find ourselves drawn to, people we feel at ease around.

There is nothing wrong with having these people in our lives.

But sometimes, we fall into a rut of never expanding beyond a select few. Or when we do expand, it’s only to more of the same types of people. Maybe they come from a similar background, or have the same taste in clothes and movies. Whatever the reasons for our choices, we can find ourselves becoming “cliquey”.

In personal relationships, we can lose out on so much by limiting ourselves. Stretching beyond our comfort zone and reaching out to the possibliity of a new friendship allows us to learn more about the world outside of our own, and even more about ourselves.

In the writing world, the same concept applies. If we only surround ourselves with one group, we forgo opportunities to learn. Maybe we are in the habit of chatting up only those in a particular writing group, or those who write in the same genre we do. Maybe we prefer to stick with those that have acheived the same level of success we have, or who always make us feel good about our work.

Again, there’s nothing wrong with having a go to group that makes us feel good. But how much are we learning if we don’t expand beyond that group?

It doesn’t take much. In your personal relationships, it may be as simple as chatting with someone new, inviting an acquaintance for coffee, or just saying hello. Online it may mean following a writing tag (#amwriting), joining in a writing chat (#storydam), or following a writer a friend recommends.

Not every attempt will lead to new best friends or amazing writing connections. But each attempt will teach you something, even if it only brings a deeper appreciation of those who you are close to.

How can you expand yourself in the coming weeks?

In the meantime, while you think about expanding (or, more likely, donuts…I’m sure I lost  half of you right there at the beginning…) check out some posts I enjoyed over the past week.

For those who hang out here for their weekly dose of TV, an interesting article in The Huffingon Post about social media’s affect on programming.

Neil Gaiman says some pretty great things about being an artist (among other things) in this recent commencement address. I especially liked the part about making your own rules.

Claudia Hall Christian wrote this some time ago, but I thought the advice was great for any writer, not just those who write serial fiction: Three Super Ninja Tricks to Unstick Your Serial Fiction

I think most writers fear the negativity that comes with putting their work out in the public eye. Beth Revis post makes the point that not everyone likes bacon and why that should matter to you.

If you enjoy travel, photography, and supporting a teacher, go check out my dear friend Joe’s photograph in the Conde Nast Dream Trip contest. Give him your support by simply clicking the vote button (no messy sign in required!).

And, for those of you who don’t already know, I finally saw The Avengers this past weekend. I loved it and have been having properly geeky conversations (mostly with myself) about every little detail of the movie. This clip made me laugh out loud:

Annnnnd…one of my bestest writing buddies has some exciting news coming – I’ll be updating my post with a link as soon as it happens. Geeky writerly squee!

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!

The 777 Post

A Saturday post!

But why?

Well, not only has the lovely Tiffany White honored my with a Liebster award, but she also tagged me in the 7 Meme that is going around. (That makes it sound a little like a disease. Totally unintentional. Ahem.)

So, why am I responding on a Saturday?

Because, I am a chicken. As a matter of fact, a huge impetus in starting the “Tell Me a Story” series is to get over my fear of letting others read my fiction.

I am getting over it, obviously, but I still need some work in that department. You think all those posts on believing in yourself were just for YOU? Ha. :)

By posting on Saturday, I am, perhaps, hoping for fewer readers to notice this post.

A writer who doesn’t want readers. I rule.

Anyhoooo…if you are unfamiliar with this particular meme, here is how it goes:

1. Go to page 77 of your current MS.
2. Go to line 7.
3. Copy down the next 7 lines (sentences or paragraphs) and post them as they’re written.
4. Tag 7 writers and let them know.

I am going to be a good girl and do as it says, except for step 4. Instead of tagging 7 people, I leave it up to you, dear readers, whether or not you would like to participate. If you do, then be sure to link me so I can go read what you wrote. If you want to join in, but you haven’t hit the 77th page yet, use the 7th page.

Don’t leave me out here all alone!

Ok. Enough of that. Tiffany, only because you asked nicely…

“You know I’m with you either way.  I’ll cheer you on, or put sugar in his gas tank.  Just say the word.”

Her hand was on mine, squeezing it in solidarity.  Dee meant what she said.  I could have asked her to light his car on fire and she’d do it.

I squeezed back, “I know.  When I figure it all out, you’ll be the first to know. So, enough about my night, how about yours?”

Dee lit up as she recounted every detail of the evening. Telling me about her date, she could just as easily be describing a scene from an old film; romantic, ending with a passionate, but gentlemanly kiss goodnight.  Harrison didn’t seem to misstep once, even commenting on how her dress brought out her eyes.  She took a breath, then for a moment her face fell.

 ”What’s wrong?”

 ”I just don’t feel right, gushing like this after the night you had.”

 ”It’s ok.  Gush all you like.  You deserve a gush-worthy date.  You deserve lots of gush worthy dates.  Harrison sounds amazing.”

Annnnnnnnnnnnd, that’s it for now folks. Want to read more of my fiction while I sit here quaking in my boots? Be sure to follow the Tell Me a Story series, every Thursday.

That’s right. I know how to segue.